Pupil Testimonials

2019-20

Junior

“I do mindfulness every other day and I do it with my mum and brother. It makes me feel calm and happy. I have liked all of the exercises.”
Saphina Kemble

“I like doing this before and after school because it makes me feel relaxed”
Ridley Ferguson

“(I like) the breathing cause it is makes me very calm”
Ying Hao Seyan

 

Year 7

“I felt connected to myself”
Rufus Drewitt

“I learned that mindfulness is very important. It can help your health and stress levels and how it can help you sleep. It rewires your brain, you only have to do it for 5-10 mins. I like it a lot it helps to be stress free.”
Kyah Bennett

“I now know how to calm myself down easily”
Ernie Robertson

“That at first its hard to stay still and it takes practice to work with the mind”
Lara Pendred

“I realised meditating is good.”
Jude Trigg

“I learned how to be focused in my mind and be relaxed”
Harvey Hawkes

 

Year 8

“I learned how to get more relaxed quicker and that every now and again
its nice to notice things around you including food. It might take patience
and perseverance.”
Erin Johns

“I got very calm and peaceful and I liked doing the body scan because it relaxed me.”
Will Phipp

“I learned that if you just relax you can release any stress or anxiety and
just think about the more positive things in life.“
Bryony Allen

“I found that there was scientific proof on meditation which has motivated me to try it.”
Josh Pounds

“I felt relaxed and calm and a lot more happy. I learned about different types of happiness. I really enjoyed it!“
Nina Rogers

“I learned that i should do some mindfulness everyday and its good for you”
Fin Reid

“I always enjoy the body scan as it makes me comfortable. Maybe by doing that at the start will make me more focused.”
Charlotte Wedge

“I learned about Dan Harris having a panic attack. I really liked this lesson and I will do more of this at home.”
Bo Lily Emmerson

“I liked all the practices and I really liked labelling different stress in our bodies. I learned where I stress.”
Lily Skipper

 

2016 - Year 8

“It was interesting because I learned how to relax. It has been useful to me because I learned how to be happy and what makes us happy.”
Steve Powell

“I really liked the mindfulness training. I found it fun learning about happiness and doing the debate. I found the body scan very relaxing. Overall I thought it improved my mindfulness skills a lot. “
Ralph Leach

“I tried the body scan for the first time . I found concentrating a bit challenging. I found out that mindfulness relieves stress and you relax more by doing mindfulness. It was quite useful for when I feel stressed and it was very interesting because everyone was calm after doing the body scan. I really enjoyed mindfulness.”
Ellie Mainstone

“I thought it was good for us, especially for us as a year because we are all very hyper and sometimes stressed. So doing the body scan really relaxed us all and I found that interesting. I believe that this will help all of us near exams as well. “
Molly Hyde

 

Mindfulness for Parents

Mindfulness practices are a great way for your child to enhance their well being and their learning. Mindfulness has sometimes been called ‘tuning the instrument of learning’, because it teaches you how to be both focused and relaxed at the same time - it involves learning simple techniques to bring the mind into a state of relaxed attention.. Typical activities that are used include, for example:

  • Five finger breathing
  • Body scan
  • Watching the breath
  • Mindfulness bell

Some of these sessions are voluntary and some are part of the curriculum. All pupils will have contact with mindfulness practices within the curriculum, as well as having the opportunity to develop this further at voluntary sessions.

The staff leading mindfulness practices in school have been trained by the charity ‘Mind With Heart’. For more details about Mind With Heart resources see further down this web page.

Read some of our pupil testimonials about mindfulness sessions here.

 

Y1-2 five finger breathingyoung children meditating
Year 9 mindfulness practiseyoung children meditating

 

Where does mindfulness come from?

Mindfulness practices started in America with the Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) course developed by Jon Kabat Zinn in the 1970s. Originally based on Buddhist meditation, Jon Kabat Zinn realised that the techniques for developing relaxed attention found in meditation could be adapted to a secular context successfully. The MBSR program was initially developed to help patients with chronic pain and other health conditions, but the techniques were further developed to be used in psychology, education, and business. For example, Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) was developed in the 1980s, which focused on helping people with mental health problems including depression. 

Since then a large amount of research has been completed in peer reviewed scientific journals, indicating strongly that there are many objectively observable benefits to practising mindfulness meditation. Some of the observable benefits of mindfulness reported include:

  • Reduction of blood pressure
  • Improvements in sleep
  • Improvements in immune response
  • Improved cognitive focus, including school performance
  • Improved management of emotions

As a result of the research done in the last 20 years, as well as the impact and success of many mindfulness programs around the world, mindfulness has grown to occupy a bigger and bigger place in mainstream health, education, business and public life. There is now a Parliamentary mindfulness group for MPs, for example, with a significant and growing membership, which is chaired by Tim Loughton, our local MP .  

 

Is it meditation? 

The answer to this question depends very much on how you define meditation. Mindfulness practices all involve paying attention deliberately to whatever is happening in the present moment. Often mindfulness practices also involve giving the mind a focus, such as noticing your bodily sensations. This has a lot in common with various meditation practices. There are differences between mindfulness meditation and some forms of popular meditation. For example-

  • Mindfulness meditation involves taking some time to just be and to notice what is going on - how you feel, what you see etc: It is therefore not the same as using “affirmations”, where a particular thought is repeated e.g. ‘I am feeling peaceful’. We would always encourage the approach that points children in the direction of noticing what they feel and accepting / expressing that
  • Although there are some occasions when we might encourage pupils to use their imagination in a mindfulness context (particularly with younger children), generally speaking mindfulness meditations are not about ‘going off’ to a place in one’s mind from which we then ‘return’. Mindfulness is about the here and now, and about tuning in to what is happening here and now. 

 

Guidance for parents - mindfulness resources

 Mindfulness resources have grown massively in recent years and there is now a bewildering variety of resources available, especially online. Here are some pointers for parents navigating this.

  1. Quality mindfulness apps. There are some well tried and tested mindfulness apps which are easily available and come highly recommended. They have well developed programs which can be structured to give you or your child all sorts of different areas of focus. The two we can recommend particularly, as we know them well, are Headspace and Smiling Mind.
    • Headspace: a market leader, very well developed with many programs on offer. Headspace has a cost, although you can get a certain trial period free. Headspace is available for families. 
    • Smiling Mind: this Australian app is excellent and is completely free currently. It also has a well developed set of programs according to age, starting from age 3, which makes it particularly appropriate for school children.There are many other apps which you may like to try, including Calm and Insight Timer.
      If any parents would like to send some feedback on these or other apps, please email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..
  2. Mind with Heart resources. Our training organisation have some excellent resources available: 
  3. School based material.  We have a certain amount of material created by staff which pupils and parents can access on the pupils section of this hub
  4. Youtube and other video resources online. It’s difficult to generalise about this. Generally speaking, try to avoid material where there is a lot of extra music / sound in the background which might be distracting. If the main focus on the video is sound, then that’s fine of course. Use your common sense as to whether the overall effect is focusing or not. Also use your common sense as to whether you like the way the material is presented e.g. what tone of voice is used?

Mindfulness

Mindfulness is a key part of our well being and a very good life skill to develop. Shoreham College has been developing its mindfulness program since 2016 and now has programs for all age groups, from Little Lions to Year 11.

Mindfulness for Pupils Mindfulness for Parents

young children meditating

Mindfulness for Pupils

young children meditating

 

Junior School

When you practise your mindfulness at home:

  • remember to find a place where you can be comfortable- a comfy chair or your bed
  • choose a place where you can be quiet, and where there aren’t a lot of other things to distract you
  • most of the time it’s best to sit upright and relaxed, like a tree or a mountain
  • sometimes you can also lie down flat on the floor or your bed, if you want to relax more

Click play on the videos below to do each of the mindfulness practices:

Early Years and Key Stage 1

Five finger breathing - Miss Frost

 

Teddy bear breathing - Miss Frost

 

BBB Practice - Miss Frost

 

Year 3-4

Mindfulness preparation - Mrs Stokes

 

Five finger breathing - Mrs Stokes

 

Spaghetti relaxation - Mrs Stokes

 

 

Year 5-6

Mindfulness Starter - Mr Manson

 

BBB Practice - Mr Manson

 

Body Scan - Mr Manson

 

Senior school

When you practise your mindfulness at home:

  • remember to find a place where you can be comfortable- a comfy chair or your bed
  • choose a place where you can be quiet, and where there aren’t a lot of other things to distract you
  • most of the time its best to sit upright and relaxed, like a mountain, with a straight back, but not too tense
  • sometimes you can also lie down flat on the floor or your bed, if you want to do the body scan or progressive muscle relaxation lying down

Click play on the videos below to do each of the mindfulness practices:

Y7-11

Body scan - Mr Manson

 

BBB Practice - Mr Manson

 

Mindfulness of breathing - Mr Manson

 

Progressive Muscle Relaxation - Mr Manson

 

Mindfulness of sounds - Mr Manson

 

If you want to send feedback about these videos, please email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

To read some of the things which senior school pupils have said about mindfulness, click here.

Well-being at SC

Well-being is the experience of health happiness and prosperity. It includes having good mental health, high life satisfaction and a sense of meaning or purpose.

www.psychologytoday.com

young children meditating

Well-being of pupils, staff & our families is very important to us at Shoreham College. It’s an obvious statement, but true. It underpins all that we do. As a community, we are always working hard to take opportunities to enhance well-being here.

Mindfulness: mindfulness is a key part of well-being, and is something we have been actively developing at Shoreham College over the last few years. Mindfulness is the ability to notice and appreciate what we are experiencing consciously, as opposed to ‘mind wandering’, when we are on automatic pilot. We have developed programs for all ages at the College, both as part of the PSHE curriculum and within voluntary sessions, and full details can be found on our mindfulness hub pages.

Pastorally: our pupils have a form teacher in juniors, and a pastoral form tutor in seniors, who are always their first port of call for assistance, with anything. We have an assistant head, Head of Juniors and the senior pupils are looked after by heads of Key Stage 3 and 4, who are on hand to help our pupils. We have a resident counsellor from Dialogue YMCA on hand to assist with issues around anxiety. We have a qualified SENCO who is there to help pupils with specific needs. We have trained mental health first aiders and a matron who is there to deal with pupils who need some good ol’ TLC. We work closely with Allsorts, our local LGBTQ+ advisors and the Diana Award, a charity committed to developing anti-bullying strategies. We have a strong team ready to help at any time, including our designated safeguarding lead and deputies. The team is always there.

Academically: getting literacy, numeracy and other core skills in the junior school can sometimes be tricky and the GCSEs are no pushover. Both require a lot of memory work and skills practice. We introduce our pupils to mindfulness, which enables them to emotionally centre themselves and we introduce them to growth mindset, which empowers them to respond successfully to life’s challenges, generating optimism and resilience. We can’t control the government’s education policy, but we can help pupils to cope with pressure - a great skill for life. We also track progress carefully, working hard to ensure that the bespoke level of challenge set for them is, as much as possible, in the Goldilocks’ zone: not too much and not too little. This is complex and important work.

Creatively: we believe that the rounded person is the more content and grounded and so we encourage and expect our pupils to explore who they are through the creative arts. We introduce them to the London Academy of Music and Dramatic Arts (LAMDA), and instrumental music lessons. We offer painting, acrylics and ceramics, for fun and for national competitions. Our youngest junior pupils are encouraged to learn through play and first hand experiences, whilst those in the older classes are increasingly following a creative curriculum, linking and reinforcing learning in a coherent and meaningful way. Our junior and senior challenges are independent learning tasks that enable our pupils to explore topics independently and in creative ways: entrepreneurial upcycling, space travel, expressing the spiritual in art, have all been on display here at the College. This is all about the learning journey we enjoy here.

successful team having one the dodgeball competition

Sport/healthy life-style: we know that sport is not just about competing. It is also about developing our minds and bodies, boosting our immune systems, as well as learning key skills as part of our learning journey. Teamwork, resilience in the face of tough opposition, come rain or shine, develops our young people’s ability to overcome obstacles and find the strength in others. It’s food for the soul. Young people also learn how to fail, pick themselves up and to see themselves as part of a larger picture. Being in a team is an antidote to self-absorption and unhealthy narcissism. We need to encourage them to find a balance between the online world and the world out there too!

Outdoor education: neuroscientists see the huge benefits in people engaging with nature and learning while out there among the wild things. Our Little Lions (EYFS) love their outdoor areas, following a woodland learning experience, and our juniors and seniors have many opportunities to access our forest school. Juniors work with the local South Downs National Park undertaking the John Muir Award. All pupils access our extensive field on our 11-acre site. Our senior pupils get out into the Downs for the Duke of Edinburgh Award and mountain adventure training in Snowdonia, and this is not all about chasing pieces of paper for their own sake. It’s more about engaging the inner animal and remembering what it’s like to smell the wind, listen to the trees and get your hands dirty.

holding up the group work from a pshe activity

Personal Social and Health Education (PSHE): our pupils benefit from workshops and sessions on a huge range of topics e.g. the dangers of drugs, alcohol, child sexual exploitation, the importance of healthy emotional and, as age appropriate, sexual relationships, and through the Jigsaw package they explore issues around personal identity, a sense of self and the ever-changing world around them. We aim through classroom teaching, tutoring packages and outside speakers to prepare them for real life. We encourage discussion, raising a sense of understanding of self and others, diversity - developing inclusion and a firm grasp of fundamental British values. We also give our pupils help with thinking about their careers during their time here, enabling them to access pathways beyond Shoreham College.

Spiritual Moral Social Cultural: In addition to the PSHE programme we have assemblies for the pupils which introduce them to things spiritual and ethical. These are vital ingredients for the young person so often naturally curious about ethics, moral boundaries and also the awe and wonder of life. Religious studies, approached in a philosophical way here, is studied in juniors and seniors and forest school, for instance, presents our pupils with a chance to experience the joy of nature. We believe that all of this contributes to well-being. Our residential experiences in junior and senior school, trips abroad, drama and film clubs, art competitions and more, engage pupils in topics designed to inspire and engage young people to find out who they are.

Nutrition: our caterers are constantly looking for opportunities to provide our young people with healthy nutritious food in terms of lunches and snacks. Every year, our school council representatives talk to us about what we offer and we aim to please, if occasionally we point out the better option, nutritionally. We are very proud of our team here; we work with award-winning caterers. Our meals are often cited by visiting teams as something particularly wonderful. Food is not only about eating, either: we regularly debate dietary and moral ethical values related to food growth, consumption and sustainability. Eating together is also key to being a community.

Social skills: we encourage our pupils to socialise and learn all those ‘soft skills’ that will be so important to them later: discussion, speaking and listening and negotiation are important for all of our pupils. We have junior and senior Christmas parties, junior picnics, a Year 11 barbecue, a leavers’ ball. All are designed to put the pupils in new situations which are about learning to develop confidence with others. These skills are fostered through links with our local community, national and international charity work e.g. the Oscar Foundation, St Barnabas' Hospice. We aim to encourage a pupil voice here through our junior and senior school councils who contribute to discussions on charity projects, college facilities and equipment, food and nutrition and pupil well-being. Our pupils also work in teams as part of a vertical house system.

democracy, the rule of law, individual libery, mutual respect and tolerance of others

FBVs: fundamental British values are key to us here. We value each person’s democratic rights; we teach our pupils to respect others by upholding rules that protect us; we expect our pupils to value each other’s individual liberty and we insist that they respect each other’s religious positions. This is about creating a rainbow of human beings and creating a safe space for all.

And finally…….

The Golden Triangle: our Principal talks about the golden triangle of communication here. She believes passionately that if we all work together – pupil, parent and school – this will lead to strong outcomes for our pupils. Open dialogue can help us to alleviate pressures or tension when they are small, and indeed the benefits of early intervention are well documented.